Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts

Monday, August 25, 2014

People don't think

  I know this is a strange title, but it's true. I think people believe they can be invincible and that nothing will happen to them for their actions. Unfortunately, most of the time the person who doesn't do anything is the one who gets the backlash. I think people feel like they can treat others however they want, and nothing will happen to them. I truly hope that's not the case. We should treat others how we want to be treated. We want to know that when you do something wrong it comes back to you. How do people just treat others like trash, and throw them to the wayside to further their intentions? It becomes a trust issue. How do you learn to trust others when all you ever see is the bad they could do to you? I don't want to live in that fear all the time. I don't want to always have to worry that someone is "out to get me" so to speak.

    Everyone gets "burned" at one point by someone. Whether it be a friend, boss, or even a family member. We learn to love again, and yet we hold back on who we really are so that no one can hurt us again. You think you know someone, but you find out that you really never did. I know it seems like this is a sad blog post, but I am hoping that others read this, seeing that we can overcome the issue's in our lives. We have to learn to love and trust. We have to learn to let go of what others have done to us. We have to learn that WE have the right to be WHO we want to be! I often say that we need to be ourselves. This post is no different than that. I don't care what race, sexual preference you are.. if you are a good person to others than that's all that matters. I think we are often judged before people even know us. Some people are just rude and disturbing. Stay away from the negative. Find the light in the one's around you, look for the light in others. Don't look at them as if they have 3 heads, try to learn from the diversity.

We will all go through trials in our lives, it's how we deal with them that sets us apart. Be strong! Be you! Be BOLD! -XOXO- Dee King Author

Monday, June 9, 2014

Funny stuff

 I made this photo for a friend who has a fear of cow's. I just thought it would be funny to share with you all!

Monday, June 2, 2014

Anger

Anger can cause people to act out in radical ways. Some of us will punch a wall, some will kick and scream, some will yell. Anger can build till you can not hold it inside any longer, and you "explode" on someone. Now, harnessing that anger can actually be good for you. Use the anger you feel inside for someone who has wronged you, and do something positive with it! May be you were told your whole life that you wouldn't amount to anything, well, prove them wrong! Let the anger you have against someone that has "wronged" you turn into something beautiful. You could prove them wrong! You could learn to love yourself. You could learn that they are wrong! That you are worth the fight! You are worth their time, and if they still don't get it, then guess what? They were not meant to be in your life. It could be a parent, a loved one, even a friend.. value yourself, and that is all that truly matters. See, I know what it feels like to be pulled in many directions, and never understanding why me? Well, today, I ask you why not you? These obstacles are put in your way, to see if you are strong enough. Are you? YES! You are worthy of love, friendship, and most of all, you are worthy of being cared about. You are the only person who can turn that anger into something positive. Have it work for you, not you work for it! Are you ready to be amazing?
DK